Damaged women dating are you dating a spy
While all that saccharine jazz may indeed ring true for the well-adjusted sort who eats five servings of vegetables a day and calls his mom every Monday at P.M., it doesn't necessarily apply to the enigma that is "the damaged and dysfunctional man". He is a wounded soul, a broken arrow, and most likely suffering from a gnarly yet undiagnosed "Cluster B" personality disorder.
To that end, he will casually and inconspicuously drop tiny seeds of hope in your already confused mind, which seeds he knows will germinate into oak trees of rumination and analysis. You refuse to take the bait, and he begins rattling off questions like an un-medicated kid with ADHD and a paintball gun.The macho dysfunctional type is allergic to Facebook, or, more accurately, your friend request.He doesn't want to give you any rose-colored fantasies of future coupledom, nor does he wish to tip you off to the existence of any other sad contenders for his calloused hand.The emotionally handicapped man is hypersensitive to any form of rejection, whether perceived or real. Your fantasies of the two of you honeymooning on Bora Bora are rudely interrupted by his most surprising proclamation.
You're not sure whether to slap him on his red, sweaty face, or to continue fantasizing about the private hut on Bora Bora. You’re the Jane to his Tarzan, and woe to the poor soul that dares tries to disturb this primitive pair bonding.Either you, like me, have been sitting on the therapist's couch so long that your ass has left sweat marks on it, or you have a sick, self-destructive desire to eventually take a seat next to me on said couch. So, how exactly do you know that you have drilled your way into the dysfunctional man's scarred and black heart?